AHouston 💋 thank u *REDBIRD *💋

*Now music🎶is a melody I can relate to, Melodies that sound so different if you allow your mind to listen.I appreciate music, its used in our everyday life for so many purposes,many don't even see. I have no favorite genre when it comes to music..I listen to all with my mind and heart💖. *Rob Thomas,*Bettye LaVette,*Joss Stone,*Kemistry,*Millie Jackson,*2Pac,*Nas,*Honeycone,*Laura Lee,*Al Green,*Sade,*Bob Marley,* Shirley Brown,* Gerald Levert,,* Johnny Taylor,* Donny Hathway,* Lenny Williams,*Janis Joplin*, Buddy Ace,* R Kelly,* so many.... it's just unfair to have a favorite.*

🎬Car Wash (1976),*Lady 🎤sings the Blues,*300,*The Gladiator,* Temptation,*Five 💓Heartbeats,*Clock Work Orange,*Smokin Aces🚬, I totally got with the cast, that vibe and stair walk with Common and Alicia, the character life of Alicia and Taraji, was different for women of color, Smokin Aces 2🚬 was garbage...totally sucked!* The Exspendables*, and *Black Swan, loved it dark yet beautiful*....

📺To be honest, I don't even turn mines on...unless, my PATRIOTS 🏈are playing, or Boston

How to spot a Bastard by his sign📚Will the real women please stand up.......Windows for Dummies📚

Basketball 🏀would top my list, I played for many of years, my son was disappointed when I put my tennis up for heels👠. I still shoot around with him, no physical playing anymore.

I love to play pool, while the blues plays softly Spending time with my children, we scrapbook on Saturday mornings. It's time consuming but fulfilling. I think on issues of the world and feed off life lesson's guess that's why I'm mentally aware. I like outside the box, in the box is cool when you want to hide, and catch a piece of mind from time to time, outside the box your free to roam about, but it's gets scary and crowded, things aren't as peaceful outside the box, so I keep my key in my mind ,cause my mind is my keep safe place, And I never lose it. So when outside the box is too much for me, my mind has entry back into the box for that piece of mind we all need from time to time. People's opinions are important to me, they help me to understand an individual, as an individual, which establishes a good understanding and friendship.

My mental dreams are just that mental, they come when I sleep, vanish when I wake, so in that aspect they mean nothing. My emotional dreams are the one's I control, the one's I would hope to one day make way to reality, those are for my children to be successful in their lives as they become adults,to keep open minds and hearts,respect for self and others,God fearing and always love their mother.

My ability to actually hold a conversation, My ability of insight, and I like my nose...I'm more in tune and concerned with internal than the physical...The internal is who I am, the physical will eventually go through changes I have no control over, so I ask time to be gentle with me. I consider my imperfections my strong features, why because they compliment my perfections, which gives me balance to appreciate me, for whom I am, simply imperfect.

I'm a simple laid-back girl. I keep an open mind to everything . I stay to myself and my music(many may say I'm boring). Music is my taboo in life, I don't sing it (not a singer), I see it, I hear it, and I feel it. My mother and father were very open , I guess that's a proper word to describe those two, so I was raised openly , honestly, and freely, music was always played in our home, waking up to the Temptation's, Aretha, Sam Cooke, and many others, made my soul old at an early age. Born under the sign of a female SCORPIO, versatile,complicated,intense,and very kind

The person a woman follows,if he means her well, A physical and mentally strong person,mistakes are allowed,cause he's not perfect, A mouth of honesty when he speaks, and lies never to me, descent and humble to all he meet,but always stand his ground so meek, All men have the ability to be a King, most just don't know it.

I know it's difficult for men of today to understand respect for a woman. It's hard for me as a woman to respect some women. I'm no angel, but I am a lady, and I carry Alanka on that level at all times. I am not scrumptious, I don't come on a menu. You can not "SOP" me up, you can not be my "rocking chair, come on read the PROFILE I know music, these or the things a man says to his woman in privacy, not to a strange woman. What do you actually know about Alanka, besides what I let you see through picture's, I love to receive compliments,makes me feel good to know someone finds me attractive enough to tell me, makes any woman's day. We as men and women have strayed soooo far away from just "SIMPLE RESPECT" for ourselves that we live our lives like anything goes,so when the mouth opens, you sound like a fool.No respect for yourself means no respect for Alanka, which means no conversation for both. I do not "DEMAND" nor do I ask for it, If I show respect for myself and for you shouldn't I be "ENTITLED" to your respect.

My defination of an understanding is meeting on common ground and being honest with each other,under all condition's. Respecting the other's personal life and space. Receiving what is given and giving what is asked. Keeping it clean and simple. Not asking for what you can't give back, or simply asking for too much. I have learned* take care of what you want and appreciate it while you have it, cause shyt happens*. Look at the situation at hand, ask yourself do I want to experience this, if so move forward but remember it's all based on an *UNDERSTANDING*.

LoL...A gentleman compared his relations to DONUT"s, I liked it cause it makes so much sense if you think outside the box on it. He use to just grab and go picking these DONUT"s daily, even used the drive-thru, because he liked different types of DONUT's and had no time or expectation's of going in too choose his DONUT's, so the drive thur must have cut his time in half to be back to get his next DONUT. I liked his perspective on this subject, alot. He also expressed he dose not have to have so many DONUT's anymore. He only choose's one at a time, now. Too many sweet's give ya toothache's.....and eating too fast make's you choke....Glad I'm not a DONUT!!!!!

Orgin Indian, meaning *) A chain of notes played on a musical instrument or sung in Indian classical music *) jewel; trinket an ornament

-CLUELESS, is what I thought i was about dating, but since I have actually went out on a few dates, I'm more like disgusted, disappointed, no not disappointed, cause that would mean I actually cared. I'll stick with disgusted for now.

The life of me, it holds no hate, no love, no hurt or no pleasure, I understand the heart has been made to show love and emotions, This is a unrealistic history of the heart,its a vessel that allows life,but permissions love. Imagine a heart with a mind?

The heart ...has been confused with the abilities and functions of the mind, my mind is like a mind within a mind, never idle, yet tamed. Beautiful yet ugly, content yet restless, thoughtless yet thoughtful, Oh! such a lovely mess. Imagine the mind with a heart?