its a human being thats wants control over his\her life and they are willing to beat,rape,steal every strong point of their partner, because they r to weak to go it alone so to feel strong the start a domestic abuse attack.whom ever went thru and maybe even still going thru his \hers domestic abuse please get out of there and please dont ever give up on yourselfs. always stay safe and stay cool no matter what type of abuse his\her life goes thru

Amen to that. Been there done that, right now I have a neice going through it people that love her can't get through to her. We keep her in our prayers and when she is ready we will be here to help.

Hi Jamie,

I tried to respond to your message the other day. typed it all up and then it went into cyber space somewhere.

we have tried everything to get her out but she doesn't want to leave him. she chases him down the worst part of it is she is pregnant again, she is hoping if she has a son he will stay with her and not cheat with his other baby mama Family  and friends have tried taken her in but she keeps bring him to their homes and the drama starts. they have families to protect. to our knowledge he has never he never hits the girls. I olny know of one incident of him hitting my great niece. We are all on standbye when she's really sick and tired of being sick and tired we'll be here for her and the kids.

Peaace and Blessings to you

Take good care of yourself Stay Safe

She is not ready let her be ready but dont let her out of ua syt keep her in ua prayers and show her how much u love her then when she is ready she will go to whea she "will find love:

i truely hope u r right  princessor m i truely hope u r right

It took me 7 or 8 tries before I could break the bond that my now exhusband had over me.  I still wear the emotional scars though.  I have problems with my self image, i jump when someone moves suddenly or gets loud and it has been 18 years now that I divorced him.  Be there when she is ready because she really is going to need all forms of support.  When she is ready to leave she will and hopefully it will be before something drastic and permanent happens.  There is life and love after violence.

i was in a very abusive relationship in my marrage,my ex-husband shot me 4 times,stabbed me twice,had 10 broken ribs,and my head was stuck in a 2x4,all this happened w/in a 45 min period of time,im very lucky to be here now,i went thro 2yrs of counsiling over this,im a better person and have learned alot....anyone in any kind of an abusive relationship,please,be careful and do wat you have to do to get away from it,cause you never know,that last time you think is tha last time,it could be ur last,please get out of it asap....

been there 2 times in the last 3 years broke free and NEVER wanto to go though it again. It kills me to know other people are going through what i went through. it is very draining and you think you love them or you really do they just have a tie on you i am only 18 was going though it since i was 16 if you are going through it PLZ get out of it it only gets worse.