Patricia M Thank YOU JERRY S!!!!!!!

The standards, Frank Sinatra, the 60's, 70's, 80's., Motown, JAZZ,Krall, Donna Summer, Michael Buble,Etta James,Any Williams, Neil Sadaka,Toto, Fleetwood Mac, Leslie Gore,Carpenters, a little country and classical when I'm in the mood, 1812 Overture, Shaharazade?, Enya, Linda Ronstat,, Christmas carols, music you can do the bump to., THE DOORS, THREE DOG NIGHT,COMMODORES,CAPTAIN AND TENIELLE.

NOTE:I'm not looking for PORN, men without shirts flexing their muscles, men from other countries, men raising young children, hippies, serious bikers, young guys under 45, smokers, druggies, high school drop outs or men God spoke to telling you I am the ONE. Please if you are any of these look somewhere else. I am not the one for you. I do not IM.

I'm into HGTV badly, reality TV, I like good movies and to me a good movie is one that when it is over, you're still laughing, crying, shocked or moved by what you have just seen. ET is my favorite all time movie though.

50 SHADES OF GREY, 50 SHADES DARKER, Diana Gabaldon Outlander Series, How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci, Seven Steps to Genius Everyday, Night, THE SECRET. Pretty much I read everything I can. I don't have the time to read as much as I used to or would like to but when warmer weather arrives , I will be at the pool daily either catching up on work or reading.. IF IT HAS BEEN SEVERAL YEARS SINCE YOU HAVE READ A BOOK OR YOU DO NOT ENJOY BROWSING BOOKSTORES, THEN YOU ARE NOT THE MAN FOR ME. I AM A HEAVY DUTY READER AND THE SEXIEST THING EVER DONE FOR ME BY A MAN WAS TO LET ME LAY MY HEAD IN HIS LAP WHILE HE READ TO ME. IT WAS BEAUTIFUL.

Ping pong, snorkeling, river tubing, lounging in a pool, hottub or clear water beach. I am a water person, board games card games, spades, poker,jenga, games I make up, scavenger hunts, treasure hunts and just being silly.

Treasurehunting, traveling, volunteering/I BELIEVE WE ALL SHOULD GIVE SOME OF OURSELVES TO HELP OTHERS FOR FREE. I HAVE ALWAYS VOLUNTEERED IN MY COMMUNITY AND MANY TIMES IT HAS LEAD TO A PERMANENT JOB.I HAVE HELPED SENIORS GET HELP WITH HEATING AND COOLING COSTS. SET UP ACTIVITY AND FEEDING PROGRAMS FOR CHILDREN IN THE SUMMER. HELPED START AND RUN OUR LOCAL FREE MEDICAL CLINIC, HELPED TROUBLED KIDS IN GROUP HOMES, JAIL, FOSTER CARE AND HOSPITALS AND HELPED PARENTS OF PROFOUNDLY HANDICAPPED CHILDREN OR THOSE TAKEN THROUGH VIOLANCE.I HAVE TRAINED LAWYERS AND JUDGES TO WORK WITH THESE CHILDREN AND BEEN A GUARDIAN AD LITEM ON MANY, MANY OCCASIONS. I HAVE SET UP PARENTING CLASSES, COMMUNITY SERVICE TO PAY RESTITUTION AND HOPEFULLY HELPED THOSE THAT WOULD HAVE ENDED UP ON THE STREETS OR THROWN AWAY. IT BRINGS ME GREAT JOY TO BE ABLE TO HELP PEOPLE WITH NO THOUGHT OF GAIN FOR MYSELF.THROUGH MY HELPING OTHERS, I HAVE LEARNED TO FORGIVE THE UNFORGIVEABLE DONE TO CHILDREN AND INNOCENT PEOPLE JUST TRYING TO SURVIVE.

TO FIND THAT ONE SPECIAL MAN I RESPECT AND FROM RESPECT LOVE GROWS FOR US BOTH. TO SEE SOME OF THIS BEAUTIFUL WORLD I HAVE ONLY READ ABOUT. GROWING UP MY GREATEST LOVES WERE READING, HISTORY AND SCIENCE. I LOVE MUSEUMS AND WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THE CHANCE TO VISIT MANY I HAVE NEVER SEEN..I WOULD LOVE TO HELP EVERY CHILD HAVE A CHANCE NOT JUST THE ONES WITH MONEY. MY FAVORITE SAYING TO MY GRANDSON IS GOOD MANNERS AND GOOD GROOMING CAN TAKE YOU TO PLACES YOU NEVER IMAGINED POSSIBLE.THE OTHER IS THERE ARE REALLY ONLY 2 RULES TO FOLLOW, SAFETY FIRST AND BE NICE, ALWAYS TREAT OTHERS WITH RESPECT. ONE OTHER RULE, GIVE, GIVE, GIVE ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING YOU HAVE TO HELP OTHERS, IF YOU FOLLOW THESE SIMPLE RULES YOU WILL HAVE A GOOD LIFE, BE RESPECTED AND BE GIVEN ALL YOU NEED AND MORE IN THIS WORLD.WE GO ON GIVING ADVENTURES, EVERYTHING FROM DROPPING COINS ON SIDE WALKS TO PAYING FOR THE GUYS BEHIND US IN LINE.IF WE SEE SOMEONE WHO LOOKS COLD, WE HAVE BOUGHT COATS, PULLED THE TAGS OFF AND GIVEN COATS AND GLOVES.MY GRANDSON LOVES WHEN WE DO THIS,HE GETS MORE EXCITED THAN GETTING A FAVORITE TOY AND MANY TIMES HAS GIVEN UP A TOY TO HELP OTHERS.

My loving and giving heart.My heart is much more beautiful than anything on the outside.My legs, I must say and have been told my entire life, I have GREAT legs!! My mind and my compassion for others, my ability to solve any problem that comes along, and when you get me going, my sense of humor!! I also am great with power tools and can build or fix just about anythng.I can rebuild a car engine, fiberglass a skim board, some electrical wiring i collect unusual art work and have sold some for incredible profit.I am a very kind person and try never to hurt others.I forgive the unforgivable,Animals and children love me, as I do them. I LOVE WRITING SILLY SONGS AND BOOKS COMPLETE WITH ILLUSTRATION.Maybe I will post my first book written 27 years ago with my son. It started out a song but got too good, we had to illustrate and publish it.

I HAVE BEEN ALONE OVER 15 YEARS NOW, I want to do so many things and see so many places all over the world and things are always better when shared with someone you love!! I'm not really sure if I need a friend, husband, lover or maybe just a traveling companion.I AM NOT INTERESTED IN MEETIMG ANY SERIEL KILLERS!! MARRIED MEN or MISUNDERSTOOD LITTLE BOYS,

I have never had a driving ticket and can forgive a few but constant, no way. DUI, stay away, sex offender, stay farther away, in jail for more than one night stay really far away!! Pimps..I'm not interested, I already have a job. Anyone who keeps snakes or even likes them.I can handle tarantulas, no problem but not snakes. If you think it is the womans job to keep the house clean, serve you hot meals and iron your shirts, you don't want me. I'm a terrific cook but it is not an every day thing by any means.I would much rather make the money to pay someone to clean. I have other talents.Please don't tell me how much "in love" with me you are at first contact..it's bull and I'll never trust what you say from then on. Just be a nice guy. You don't need to be rich but I don't want a man I will have to support. If you have been married more than twice , maybe 3 times stay away.Everyday drinkers , I'm not interested unless its wine at dinner,port or an after dinner drink.Falling down drunks stay away. Hope you understand more about me now.I have nothing against anyone that fits in these catagories but you are just not for me and believe me you would not like me too much either!!

I WANT A MAN WITH INTEGRITY , ONE I CAN RESPECT AND I WOULD like someone I can hug that is soft and snuggy. I don't want anyone that thinks he is the hottest thing around, I used to be hot, believe me it fades and if you have lived live it does take its toll and thats character. My idea of roughing it is staying in a four star hotel without 24 hour room service. I would never camp, clean a fish or anything like that. I did catch a fish once in a basket and then let him go. No smokers, no drugs, no old hippies, no star trek fanatics. Motorcycles.. I did have one when I was younger and do understand the popularity of them now but riding once in a while might be fun but not every weekend. Did I mention I hatemost sports but I love shopping. baseball, tennis,figure skating i like, football? 2 seconds of action then 5 minutes talking about it, then another 2-3 seconds. it might great if more action, less talk.

No one under 45, no one just looking for sex, no one that sends me pictures of his naked body or of certain parts of said body. I am not into sports, I would never date anyone that hunted for sport. . I don't date men with tatoos unless they may have been out of their minds when young and possibly thought it would be real funny to get the back of his neck bar coded, as my son did. I still think I should have sandpapered that little mistake off!!All over body tatoos forget it. I love good looking men with some muscles but I don't want rippeling muscles. I like soft, cuddly but you do need enough muscles to complete any task I need you to do.I care more about what is inside a persons heart than what they look like.. If you don't know how to light a grill or which end of a screwdriver to use, you are not for me. I love power tools, the best Christmas presents I ever received were a skateboard and power tools.

HONEST, LOVING, COMPASSIONETTE, CARING, RESPECTFUL, BUT LONELY. I DO FOR OTHERS ALWAYS NOW I THINK IT IS TIME TO DO FOR ME.I DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT, I'VE EARNED IT. IF YOU LIE TO ME IT IS OVER. I WANT AN HONEST MAN ONE I CAN RESPECT.